The Principal’s Little Notebook

Choosing the Right Nursery Schedule: 3 Days or 5 Days?

By the Principal of Melodies international Kindergarten / Developmental
Psychologist / Mother

Introduction

When it comes to choosing between a 3-day nursery schedule and a 5-day nursery schedule, which option is better for your child?

For families in Bangkok who are considering nursery or kindergarten, you may have wondered:
“Which style of care would benefit my child more—3 days or 5 days?”

Both options have their pros and cons, and the best fit depends on your child’s personality as well as your family’s lifestyle.

Today, I’d like to share some insights into the differences between 3-day and 5-day childcare schedules, along with key points to consider when making your decision.

1. Balancing your Child’s Development and Environment

What matters most for children is balancing loving time at home with experiences that build social skills in group settings.
In nursery or kindergarten, spending time with peers of the same age helps children naturally develop cooperation and an understanding of rules.

At the same time, according to the National Association for the Education of Young Children (NAEYC), family time is also essential for emotional and psychological stability.

In other words, how you and your child spend non-childcare days plays an important role when deciding on the number of days of attendance.

2. Benefits of 5-Day Childcare

Having meals, naps, and activities at the same times each day helps create a stable daily routine, which in turn provides children with a sense of security.

Research published in the Journal of Child and Family Studies shows that children who attend childcare regularly tend to demonstrate stronger social skills and adaptability.

Since childcare follows a daily routine—arrival, activities, lunch, nap time, and play—children can feel comfortable and reassured.

Of course, families can establish similar routines at home, but kindergarten or nursery naturally supports a structured, consistent rhythm.


3. Tailoring to Your Child’s Personality

Every child is different.
Some enjoy lively, social environments, while others prefer solitary play or are more sensitive to stimulation.

Many children have a mix of both traits.

For example:
・ A child who adapts quickly to group settings may be ready for a 5-day schedule right away.
・ A child who is more reserved or shy may benefit from starting with 3 days, gradually adjusting to a group environment.

I encourage parents to observe their child closely and choose a pace that feels right for their child and family.

4. Family Needs and Parenting Environment

Raising children in Bangkok can come with unique challenges compared to Japan.
Many parents mention difficulties such as “a lack of safe outdoor play areas” or “limited opportunities to meet children of the same age.”

Within this context, nurseries and kindergartens become important places where children can play freely and safely.

Another benefit of raising children in Bangkok is the flexibility to choose the number of childcare days that best suit a family’s work and lifestyle.

Summary: Choosing the Right Number of Days

    When deciding between a 3-day and a 5-day childcare schedule, consider your child’s personality, daily rhythm, family circumstances, and overall parenting environment.

    Both options have their strengths, and what matters most is choosing the approach that feels comfortable and manageable for your child and family at this stage.

    About Melodies Kindergarten & Nursery

    At Melodies, we offer flexible childcare options to support expat families living in Bangkok with peace of mind.

    ◆Melodies Nursery (Campus 38 & 49)

    • Our nursery program is very flexible, allowing parents to choose how many days per week they would like their child to attend.
    • School bus service available upon request.
    • Japanese nursery teachers are always on site, providing attentive care.

    ◆Melodies Kindergarten

    • Japanese Section: Accepts children from 2 years old and up, taught by Japanese teachers.
    • International Section: Accepts children from 18 months, taught by International teachers.
    • Schedules: 3-day options are also available.

      • In both sections, inquiries and school tours can be arranged in Japanese/Thai/English.
      We warmly welcome families who are interested in visiting us.

      We hope this information supports you in your parenting journey.

      Together with families, we are committed to nurturing the healthy growth and development of every child.